The Nice Guy Paradigm
Nice guys finish last. I always wondered about that statement until I realized that nice guys are rarely in their masculine energy. In fact, they are genuinely sweet and nice.3>
Women do find men with those qualities attractive, at least at first. Then, as time goes by, they begin to realize that the sweet, nice, loving guy has no backbone, cannot make decisions, may be unable to hold a job, or simply needs her to take care of him.
At that point she realizes that she has to take on the role of the masculine energy, which is definitely not what she had in mind. This creates a painful dynamic in the relationship and eventually the nice guy finds himself sitting on the curb once again.
Don’t finish last.